Things are on the Up and Up

Hello? Is anybody there?

Just thought i'd better check back in after that last post and let you all know that, after much soul searching and many tears, my husband and I have decided to work on our marraige rather than throwing it all away.

He's admitted his part in what's been happening and i'm trying to accept that the situation that arose wasn't through a lack of caring, but a lack of understanding on his part.

We've been together so long that we had both started acting in ways that we thought each other wanted, and in the process we'd lost ourselves.

We've both made commitments to being happy in ourselves and are trying to see them through - can't ask for much more than that, can we?