Sunday, May 29, 2011

Things are on the Up and Up

Hello? Is anybody there?

Just thought i'd better check back in after that last post and let you all know that, after much soul searching and many tears, my husband and I have decided to work on our marraige rather than throwing it all away.

He's admitted his part in what's been happening and i'm trying to accept that the situation that arose wasn't through a lack of caring, but a lack of understanding on his part.

We've been together so long that we had both started acting in ways that we thought each other wanted, and in the process we'd lost ourselves.

We've both made commitments to being happy in ourselves and are trying to see them through - can't ask for much more than that, can we?

3 Friends sharing the love xx:

Linda said...

I'm glad you've been able to work work through some of your issues. Being married is so hard and the longer you're together the easier it is to fall into the roles you've created (good or bad). I totally understand.

To Band or not To Band? said...

Oh sweety! I missed the last post and feel bad that I did! It is hard to know what to say, but a big hug never goes astray. I hope that you can both find the answers that you are looking for in each other! 14 years is an amazing amount of time!

So belated but here it is - HUG xox

Chris H said...

I'm glad things are on the up for you and your husband. Communication is the key to a happy marriage. There was NONE in my first marriage...and I grew to despise him... so it ended.
I count my blessings every day for meeting Stew and finding the man of my dreams.